On the last day of the Affiliate Summit East, Mike Allen (Shopping-Bargins.com), Jennifer Myers Ward (above & beyond, inc) and Shannon Vogel (The Be-Scene) gave their advice on social media in the session Not Just Another Session on Social Media.

It really was just another session, but as it was one of the only ones focusing on social media, sometimes it's good to go back to basics. Part of the panel session highlighted top tips on what not to do in the social media space. As it's rather easy to get it wrong, we've included four areas you need to avoid if you want to succeed with your online communities as an extention of our 10 Twitter commandments.

1) Don't overpromote/ sell

When people use social media on a personal basis, they aren't in a mindset to be sold to so don't invade their personal space. Most social media purchase decisions happen in the back of the brain because you've planted a seed by just being there in the first place. Direct selling will undo all your social media efforts.

But where can you sell? You have to watch the terms and conditions on each platform. Though it is commonly known that you can't offer rewards or have competitions on your Facebook page, as platforms change so do the rules. Now that cover photos have been introduced, there are a few things you can't do:

  • Price or purchase info such as 40% off
  • Contact info such as web addresses, phone numbers, etc
  • References to user interface elements such as like or share
  • Calls to action such as get it now or tell your friends

If you do any of these things, then you can get shut down without any warning.

2) Don't be lazy

It's very easy with tools such as ifttt.com as well as cross connection between platforms to automate your posts. 

  • Though it's tempting, don't forward tweets to Facebook. Though the panelists suggested that you can send Facebook posts to Twitter, I wouldn't recommend it. If your fans follow you on multiple social media sites, you want them to get different messages at different points of the day in order to give them what suits the platform and why they are there in the first place.
  • Don't post a link without explaining why you are posting - otherwise it looks like a virus.
  • Auto replies are not genuine to people that support you more than once i.e. already follow you elsewhere or have purchased from you in the past. If your call to action, things like "also like me here" is one that doesn't apply to everyone who could start following you. This approach doesn't make you feel important or connected. Basically, don't set it and forget it.
  • Don't invite everyone on your list to Facebook events if they aren't applicable. It may be 3000 miles away, the event may not be interesting, and if you send it at short notice, it could cost 2000 to get a plane ticket.
  • Don't set up a page just to grab the URL unless you're also willing to engage and create and share content. Nothing is worse than your customers heading to empty pages or messaging you in places you aren't active so they don't get the response they're expecting.

3) Don't act desperate

Begging is not attractive. Personal requests are OK but really if your content is good enough, people will know what to do. How you present yourself in the space translates to how you do your business.

As Shannon Vogel said, if your audience is a woman at home, at night, after the kids go to bed, and she is relaxing, she doesn't want to see the prescheduled punch in the face "buy from me, buy from me, buy from me." Your opportunity is to connect and help. Most of all remember to be more interested than interesting.

4) Don't do it if it doesn't feel good

If you ever ask yourself, should I post this, does it sounds spammy or sales pitchy, or wonder if it will offend someone, don't take the risk.

My favorite analogy from the Affiliate Summit East came out of this session: social media engagement is a lot like sex. Tips included:

  • You don't ask for it right after you say hi
  • You have to work for it if you want more
  • It takes work if it's going to be any good
  • It's better to be attentive to the right people rather than not fully present with many
  • Flattery will get you everywhere. "Look at me, look at me," not so much.

At the end of the day, you have to be human. This is a relationship. Will a one night stand get you somewhere long term? Probably not.

Heather Taylor

Published 14 August, 2012 by Heather Taylor

Heather Taylor is the Editorial Director for Econsultancy US. You can follow her on Twitter, Google+ or Pinterest.

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Edwin Martin, Head of Customer Marketing at Sky Betting and Gaming

I always find avoiding spelling mistakes in headlines is a pretty good starter, too...

about 6 years ago



Well spotted Edwin!

Nice article but a lot of it is common sense, not much new insight or real world examples on how the theory above is being used in real life cases

about 6 years ago

Heather Taylor

Heather Taylor, Editorial Director at Econsultancy

We like to keep you on your toes Edwin ;) This session was a get back to basics kind of one and sometimes it's good to have a reminder of that.

about 6 years ago


Nick Stamoulis

You can't turn your social profiles into a soapbox for promoting your products. A little self promotion now and then is fine, but you don't want to get pushy. Focus on your customers and keep your ego out of it!

about 6 years ago

Tom Howlett

Tom Howlett, Digital Marketing Executive at Koozai

Over promotion and selling is what I see a lot of businesses doing. Other companies get the balance just right.

I think if people see a personal side to a company through social media channels, that could go a long way without having to promote much. You want to focus on building a presence, not just creating another platform as you want to reach as many people as possible.

about 6 years ago


Petar Tchavdarov

I see Social Media as just another source of information about your business. Much like a blog, it should be used to cater for those users that are used to finding information through this particular channel. Being present is promotion in itself and that is what actually counts. Our business at www.thesocks.com, for example, does not rely on facebook to get customers directly but rather to increase visibility and SEO. Engaging the fans in an discussion is a much better method than just posting your products and asking for purchases.

about 6 years ago


Fred Jones

I think it's important that communication between organisations and personal users on social media sites needs to be organic, meaning that interaction is triggered by an engaging piece of content etc. When communication is based on things like this, the relationship between friends/followers on social media and organisations is stronger and leads to more conversions.

about 6 years ago

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